[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/hadky-a-vycitky\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/hadky-a-vycitky\/","headline":"H\u00e1dky a v\u00fd\u010ditky","name":"H\u00e1dky a v\u00fd\u010ditky","description":"Pred tri\u0161tvrte rokom som stretla chlapca, je o \u0161tyri roky star\u0161ia ako ja. I\u0161li sme na v\u0161etko ve\u013emi r\u00fdchlo (vr\u00e1tane zozn\u00e1menia sa s rodi\u010dmi). Len\u017ee","datePublished":"2024-01-11","dateModified":"2024-03-11","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/91506ed60e31abe586276a3e1420719df081581a820344a28fa2034bb1a2fe22?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/91506ed60e31abe586276a3e1420719df081581a820344a28fa2034bb1a2fe22?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"khg.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pixabay-289262_10_10_10_10_10_7.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-pixabay-289262_10_10_10_10_10_7.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/hadky-a-vycitky\/","about":["Spolo\u010dnos\u0165"],"wordCount":441,"articleBody":"Pred tri\u0161tvrte rokom som stretla chlapca, je o \u0161tyri roky star\u0161ia ako ja. I\u0161li sme na v\u0161etko ve\u013emi r\u00fdchlo (vr\u00e1tane zozn\u00e1menia sa s rodi\u010dmi). Len\u017ee on v \u010dase, ke\u010f my sme spolu za\u010dali randi\u0165, \u200b\u200bmal e\u0161te r\u00e1doby vz\u0165ah, ktor\u00fd ale hne\u010f ukon\u010dil. Sle\u010dna mu po mesiaci od rozchodu za\u010dala vypisova\u0165, on jej odpovedal zriedkakedy. Potom sa odml\u010dala na p\u00e1r t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ov a potom sa dali za zvl\u00e1\u0161tnych okolnost\u00ed znova do p\u00edsania. V tej dobe som mala ve\u013ek\u00e9 psychick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my cez trag\u00e9diu v na\u0161ej rodine (ktor\u00e1 sa stala p\u00e1r mesiacov pred zozn\u00e1men\u00edm), on \u0161iel za \u0148ou, vypisoval si s \u0148ou a na m\u0148a bol ve\u013emi zl\u00fd. Odvtedy to i\u0161lo do h\u00e1ja. On si s \u0148ou vraj prestal p\u00edsa\u0165, ale nikdy neuznal chybu, ani o tom nechcel hovori\u0165, vraj minulos\u0165 je uzavret\u00e1. Ja to uzavret\u00e9 v sebe nemala. Opustil ma v t\u00fa naj\u0165a\u017e\u0161iu chv\u00ed\u013eu a potom si myslel, \u017ee sa v\u0161etko sprav\u00ed na lusknutie prsta.Chybu priznal len v momente, ke\u010f u\u017e bola situ\u00e1cia \u00faplne vyhroten\u00e1, ale to on len hovoril preto, aby ma uml\u010dal. Dopro\u0161oval sa, sypal si popol na hlavu a aj tak to bolo rovnak\u00e9. Mali sme medzi sebou ve\u013ea h\u00e1dok. Bol na m\u0148a hrub\u00fd a zl\u00fd. Vy\u010d\u00edtal mi v\u0161etko, \u017ee sa nem\u00f4\u017eem vyhraba\u0165 z tej trag\u00e9die, b\u00fdval\u00fdch partnerov, vzh\u013ead (\u017ee sa za m\u0148a napr\u00edklad hanbil v obchodaku, \u017ee som nebola nama\u013eovan\u00e1 a \u017eensk\u00e1 sa tam na m\u0148a blbo pozrela). H\u00e1dali sme sa furt. Bol tie\u017e ve\u013emi \u017eiarliv\u00fd. P\u00edsal mi r\u00f4zne ve\u013emi hnusn\u00e9 SMS. Vyvol\u00e1val (cca 30 spr\u00e1v, 15 zme\u0161kan\u00fdch hovorov).Hodinu som sa neozvala, sc\u00e9na, v\u00fd\u010ditky. Dos\u0165 \u010dasto ma vydieral rozchodom a vyhr\u00e1\u017eal sa mi n\u00edm. Bol dos\u0165 nestabiln\u00fd. V jednej chv\u00edli mojich rodi\u010dov \u00faplne obdivoval a mal ich r\u00e1d, v druhej ich nen\u00e1videl, nad\u00e1val im (len predo mnou), h\u00e1dzal na nich vinu n\u00e1\u0161ho rozbit\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu (\u010do nebola pravda, moji rodi\u010dia do n\u00e1\u0161ho vz\u0165ahu nikdy nezasahovali). Bol v tomto dos\u0165 paranoidn\u00fd. Myslel si, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd s k\u00fdm sa bav\u00edme n\u00e1s chce rozdeli\u0165. Jeho rodi\u010dia, moji rodi\u010dia, moji kamar\u00e1ti at\u010f. Pred nieko\u013ek\u00fdmi t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ami som vz\u0165ah ukon\u010dila, ale chcela som zosta\u0165 priate\u013emi a on to nere\u0161pektoval.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4\/5 - (16 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"H\u00e1dky a v\u00fd\u010ditky","item":"https:\/\/www.khg.sk\/hadky-a-vycitky\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]